THE UNSPOKEN STORY OF A WOMAN

I am unable to understand the quote "A nation is run by a MAN ", when giving birth, feeding family, caring for them and grooming this MAN is done by a WOMAN.

Let us discuss something more than words, facts and society view on women. Let’s share our emotion on women.  We all may have one lady at home who cooks more than some raw vegetables in 30+ C temperature, carrying the emotion and prayers in her heart, when her family is going to eat the fruits of her hard labor they will feel nutritious and energetic, and will achieve everything they want with filled stomach. With so many emotions and goodwill she put the food on the table, and some children or adults remark, "Oh man, shit. What have you cooked today?" , or "Hey, it is a bit salty". Could you feel the pain she would have felt then. It was just an instance, but in daily life many such instances with respect to various context happens with a Woman, who holds the house.

Gradually, she starts cracking from inside, by making some statements which we feel like lectures. Friends its more than some lecture. It is an explanation of all the effort she had made to make the meal or to do the work which we do not appreciate wholeheartedly, which I believe we could have. I assume it’s not that hard to say a simple "Thank you" or show a gesture of appreciation to the woman who only prays for your happiness.

An Indian Women, a journey where one need to deal with various physical, mental and hormonal transformations. From a girl (someones's daughter) she grows to be a women (someone's wife) and then a mother. She lives through the separations (living apart from her parents, family and the home where she grew as a girl). She makes countless sacrifices just to provide smile on her family's faces. She is the epitome of unconditional love.

"She's everything even when she's treated like nothing"

Imagine this scenario, if for a day the lady of the house goes on strike and refuses to make food or do any work of the house and take a break. How would the house run? Would the food you cook taste perfect? Would the dishes you wash be stainless? And the most important question would you be able to manage to do all these household work without making a fuss about it? Each one of us knows the answer to these questions deep down. Woman is a suppressed emotion which we often forget to pay attention.

Now, elate yourself and take a deep breath. My friend we are the ones who keep shouting unable to see things. The thought doesn't occur to us that "It’s my house accordingly my duty to share the work", so that everyone get their free time, shuffle the work schedule like bachelors do in PGs.

Every father and brother has dream that their daughter or sister, should be treated as Queen, have lots of happiness, and many loved ones in her family, but no husband or son try to give the same to his wife or mother, failing to remember the fact that she is also a daughter or a sister to someone, for whom someone also would have prayed the same thing.

Let's move our perspective outside the four walls of her house. May be the outer world would be a great place for her. With all the reservation seats and women quota life would very easy for them in the society.

"The human rights is not a female fight"

Now, to check the above stated assumption, lets have a small travel in a bus 🚍 and a girl in short or tight dress enters the bus 🚍, most of our heads start to turn. Some take their eyes away in disgust and some take their eyes towards her staring and stalking with a growling interest. She gets the attention which she may or may not like. But the continual stalks definitely makes her feel uncomfortable. She changes her posture or use bag as shield to cover herself. If you are unbiased then think of the situation, if she is equal then why was there an excruciating environment in there? Why she wanted to hide herself from someone's vision? Why can't she wear what she wants to? Why is she not allowed to laugh in public like other Men. Why is she judged on the basis of the posture she sits in, the manner she eats and the way she talks? Whys is the margins only drawn for 'HER' not 'HIM' ? I totally accept that all of  us are judged at some point in our life. But being judged on what you are in every point, feels like someone is trying to refrain or impede you in every step. Putting forward in fancy terms, "Trying to keep her like a doll you want to have."

Please, “If you want a change for your family, be the part of change of grand humanity neighborhood".

Up until we have this mentality that “It's their problem, we don't need to get indulged in that to make our hands dirty", you or your loved ones will get the same answer, when they are in trouble. Because people facing the situation change, but the situation never changes.

If you worship a woman as goddess for money and power, then first learn to treat her as of equal, as a partner, as a colleagues, and above of all as a human. It is a sad reality of the society that no matter woman is making the nation proud in sports, science and technology, still she does not get a proper respect inside the four walls of her house nor the society she lives in. Now, this might not be a true story in many houses, but still some houses exist whose story is exactly as described above. The fancy decors and the expensive presents would not please her as much as few soothing words and some admiration of her efforts would. Now, we also don't say men are all villains and demons. Here we are suggesting to share the household work if you don't already, and raise a voice for anything wrong you notice around you. That may change the societal status of many women.

"How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes."

-quote by Maya Angeleou